What's your opinion about using individual crates for each dog versus letting them all sleep together? I'm thinking of bringing a new puppy in and wanted to know if I should allow to sleep with the others in one big crate, or should I spend the money and get another crate just for the puppy?
Ok...and if you would like to also reply and give your advice on letting the babies sleep in the bed with you vs putting them in the crate at night. I know, side subject.
It depends, as it always does w/any behavior question. I don't leave my dogs in crates (during the day)they are in pens (I buy them on Amazon.com, search for white dog pen..they are about 45.00 or so) I have dogs that are "housed" together and some separate in pens all lined up.. the ones together are this way, due to one having separation anxiety. They are also in these pens on my days off, so they learn to "self soothe" at all times, otherwise, they will be stressed (because you are leaving) when you only use the pens, when you ARE leaving.
At night, the one with SA, sleeps on beds on the floor (I am very careful how I handle her, because the smallest "connections" are different w/her because her brain is wired differently, so at night, she cannot sleep in bed with me). Feather is spoiled beyond belief and she sleeps with me

All younger dogs, sleep in pens in my bedroom.. for now.
As a vet tech, what I can say is, if you can get your dogs to be able to stay separate, that is the best...because if you don't and if they are injured and have to stay separate, it is very stressful on them and they won't heal as quickly. If they have to stay at the hospital, again, same thing... so, I spend a lot of time trying to take on short jaunts, with one dog at a time, so they learn this.
I believe Maltese are one of the most, needy breeds there are and do much better if they have a person or another dog with them...goes back to what they were bred for and are "open" to being stressed if they are alone. In saying that, of course, there are exceptions but for the most part, I feel this is true. So, I think it is a double edged blade..they like to sleep w/each other and need each other but it also, can be a downfall in times of the above scenarios. My dogs, being kept in separate pens, allows me to be able to do what I want (taking one w/me, for whatever reason) BUT they are also in the same room so are "with" each other, just not "overly" depend on one another.. Does that make sense?? (sorry, if it doesnt' I probably need more coffee :biggrin
When I bring in a new puppy, however, I go slow and break down scenarios into pieces of least stress as possible...so they can learn. If they are stressed, they can't learn. I put a crate on my night stand and pull it very close to my bed. My
fingers stay in the crate door all night. (this way, puppy is comforted AND you are NOT rewarding the crying by sticking your fingers in the door or talking to the puppy, as soon as it cries. that WILL make the crying become a problem, because you just rewarded it) Then by night 2 or 3, puppy "self soothes" because it can still smell you are close but you don't have to have fingers in crate all night. (if you have to, have crate on your bed, but same protocol)
Then my dogs move into pens (still in the crate) right next to my bed. I use seabreeze pens for this, because they are light and movable and then I leave crate door open and then transfer to taking it all of the way out.
Hope that helps...