Ok ladies, I have a question.... Why is it so hard to find a GOOD female friend? My best friend for the past 8 years is a guy, love him to death but it's just not the same when you want to have a "girls night". I do have one female friend, as well, I love her to death although she is SO undependable, never follows through with plans and usually negative. For my sake and my bf's I want a good girl friend, why oh why is this so hard? I'm a nice girl... a little boyish at times but at least I'm not flakie. But I'm 24 so I feel I'm at the end of the years to make new friends, and when I'm 36 I want to have dinner with my good friend ________ . Do I sound crazy?