I was reading thru a post and a few people said that reputable breeders and rescues wont let maltese go to a home with small children. I have a small child. so far he has been ok around critters. and I am trying to get him around the rats and cats more. but how can I get a maltese (or any small breed) from a good breeder or rescue if they dont alowe them to go to homes with small children?