Over spoiling? Any time I sit down my Kobe is by my side jumping up and if I pick him up he curls up and goes right to sleep. If I don’t he will do 1 of 2 things. Give up and go to his bed and go to sleep after barking at me for a couple of minutes or go tear something up (usually a pee pad). I can’t hold him always as I work from home and I want him to learn how to self sooth also because I can’t always be here. I feel bad though. We have our quality time too but am I being a bad mama?