Well it seems Jilli, didn't like the daisy may blouse sporting neighbor and may have picked up on the vibes.
Don't you just love when hubbies give you the "motion" to drop it. I usually get the suddle kick to my ankle.
I am so sorry you have to deal with this with your neighbor, has to be frustrating. I'd try as best you can to keep her at arms length, but I know it's hard.
As far as sweet Jilli, that must have shocked you, I can imagine. My Flakey (RIP), would demonstrate similar behavior. Hubby and I were buying a house, and the real estate agent was over, I was holding Flakey (which probably made it worse, now that I look back on it), because I knew he did have some trigger, points, and the real estate guy wanted to pet him, I told him, no, please don't, please, this is why I am holding him, NO, please don't and tried to move away, before I knew it, the real estate guy put his hand by Flakey's mouth, for Flakey to sniff him, and yup Flakey responded just like Jilli. The real estate agent was :w00t:
So, yes good for you to start reading up on this, and get it at a young age. I know she is a total sweetheart :wub:, but with a little tweaking, I know she will respond beautifully.