No you didn't mess up. You will find the vast majority of us here on the board have our fluffs sleep in bed with us. Heck, even the reputable show breeders will tell you that until you can trust them in your bed, to put their crate up on a stand so it's even with your bed so they feel like they are right there with you when you first get them if they are having a hard time adjusting to their new home. Toy breeds are bred to be companions and do best with their human. My personal opinion is that there is a natural bonding process that happens when we sleep with them too. My Zoe goes to my mom and dad's house every day since she's not happy at the store. So she's with them more during waking hours then with me. And truthfully, on our days off I think she's bored here and prefers mom and dad's house because she has more room to run in their yard and squirrels to chase...and she's the center of attention. However, she knows that I'm her mommy and it's me she looks to for direction and security when unsure of a situation when all of us are together. I think perhaps because we sleep together at night, that has helped to establish me as her mom or leader. I do feed her breakfast and dinner which also helps to establish that but there are many times due to my schedule, that she eats dinner at mom and dads. And dad insists on feeding her a bit of 'lunch' when he's eating his lunch. lol So again I think it has to do with her sleeping with me. Just my own personal reasoning though.
I've found with my 3 that as they age, they sleep longer and later. But even at that, some are earlier risers then others. Jett is my early riser because he wants his breakfast. lol However he has learned not to try and get breakfast before 7 am or we just go outside and then back to bed. :blush: I'm betting you will begin to see a difference when your little one is closer to a year. He will be able to hold his bladder longer and will sleep longer. I got my Callie when she was 9 months this summer and I too thought I was never going to get to sleep a full night. But she's a good sleeper now.