Hi all. I am just so mad, not at anyone here. After 15 years my son's father has decided he wants to be part of MY son's live. My son is going to be 21 this Friday and he has no memory of his father at all. His father left me when my son was 2 weeks old and has never paid support or really seen him. He saw him a couple of times when my son was very young, but that is about it. No birthday cards or anything. No phone calls to see how he was...nothing. Last week my son found a note in his door from his father with a phone number. My son hasn't called and told me he has no intentions of calling him. But Friday I got a phone call on my cell phone...you guessed it, from HIM. I'm not sure how he got my cell phone number - we have no friends or family connections but he got it. So if he has that he knows where I am. He left me a nasty message about how I kept his son from him and he was going to see him. I have never done anything to this man...didn't even go after child support. I have heard that he was into drugs heavily and I did see him myself when he was doing drug...not a pretty site. One time he called me when my son wasn't even a year old and he told me he wanted to sell him...I am kidding you not. I was told that he was too young to remember me and we would get lots of money. While of course at the time I didn't know what to say...so I just told him I wasn't interested. Now that I am much older I have plenty to say, but I am not going to talk to him. Oh, just when life was going good he shows back up.