Thanks everyone, all the advice is great. It was all just what I thinking.
We will be meeting each other part way and staying at a hotel for a night. So actually I will have a good amount of time to get to know both. I think I will meet them both before I know who is who and see how it goes. My hubby and two kids will be going. so we all can decide as a family.
If I do go with the boy I have to come up with a name. They are calling him Mathew. I will let you all know how it goes. We leave Saturday morning and get home Sunday evening. One way or another there will be pictures on Monday for sure
We will be meeting each other part way and staying at a hotel for a night. So actually I will have a good amount of time to get to know both. I think I will meet them both before I know who is who and see how it goes. My hubby and two kids will be going. so we all can decide as a family.

