I am a little short on time, so I will just give a very brief explanation.
A good friend of mine is getting married for the second time. Her first marriage was a quick one at the court house. This marriage is going to be a full blown extravaganza. She and the groom already have a child together who is four and recently diagnosed with Autism. There is a program that the state offers for children like him and he was accepted into it, however, she must pay $4,000 (it is actually like a $20,000 but the state picks up the rest).
She recently told me she isn't going to put him in the program because she doesn't have the money, BUT she is still planning on her wedding.
Myself, along with many other friends, are very upset over this. Yes, she can still cancel the wedding and get 90% of her money back, but she refuses.
If you felt as strongly as I do about this, would you go to the wedding?
That is horrible....being a mommy of one...I know I would put my son ahead of myself and hubby always. I personally would not attend....but she is your friend and I would voice my opinion to her....weather she likes it or not. IMO!