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What would you do?

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I am a little short on time, so I will just give a very brief explanation.

A good friend of mine is getting married for the second time. Her first marriage was a quick one at the court house. This marriage is going to be a full blown extravaganza. She and the groom already have a child together who is four and recently diagnosed with Autism. There is a program that the state offers for children like him and he was accepted into it, however, she must pay $4,000 (it is actually like a $20,000 but the state picks up the rest).

She recently told me she isn't going to put him in the program because she doesn't have the money, BUT she is still planning on her wedding.

Myself, along with many other friends, are very upset over this. Yes, she can still cancel the wedding and get 90% of her money back, but she refuses.

If you felt as strongly as I do about this, would you go to the wedding?
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Although I personally think your friend is extremely selfish in putting her needs ahead of her child's, It is still her decision on how she spends her money. Whether you go to this wedding or not it is still going to take place. She has already made that decision. You're not going, or anyone else's for that matter, will most likely not change her mind.

I would probably go to the wedding but definately take a very close look at my friendship with this individual.
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